ROW80,  Writer's life

ROW80 – 2022 – Round 4 – Check-in 7 (November, 20th 2022)

Hi everyone! 

Note: To keep posts short, I’ve made a Trello board with my goals for the year. Feel free to check it out if you want to know more about the bigger plan.

My word for the week is PROCESSING.

Mostly, it was about processing food properly as I ended up having issues there. But I’ll spare you the glamorous details…

I also had to process the realization I still have feelings for my future ex-husband and what to do with these feelings.

This lead me to consider something I’ve known for a while and what it actually means to me. I’m poly and I’ve never had any issues staying monogamous. I don’t know if that’s something he would consider and that’s not exactly the point now, as this is beyond my control. But I can work on accepting he might be with someone else without that being a problem.

Deep down, I feel our relationship is far from over, and just having two kids together means we are committed to each other somehow. No one else can share the amazing love we feel for our daughters.

Of course I do hope we can reconnect more deeply than that at some point, even though we obviously need to live apart right now, especially as we don’t want the same things in life.

But I feel more open to various option, depending on how he feels about all this.

So, as you can see, a lot of processing.

Other than that, it was a busy week with more homework at university and an intern at work, but I think I managed pretty well.

November Goals

Studies: aiming at 100%
Genki Chapters 19-22 50%
Writing: aiming at 80% (PASS)
CS Cycle 2.1 83%
Writing: aiming at 100% (AWAITING FEEDBACK)
Sleep Story: The End of a Long Day 82%
Writing: aiming at 80% (ON HOLD)
Sleep Story: A Stroll by the sea 62%
Writing: aiming at 50% (ON HOLD)
Memoir: An Alien in the Family 35%
Final draft: aiming at 100% (PASS)
Rotten (US) 100%
Translating: aiming at 100% (PASS)
Meditation: Mantra 100%
Correcting: aiming at 100% (PASS)
Meditation: Breathing exercises 100%
Recording: aiming at 100%
Meditation: Loving Kindness Extra sessions 100%
Recording: aiming at 100%
Meditation: Body Scan 100%
Video editting: aiming at 100%
Meditation: Work Life 70%
Publishing: aiming at 100%
Meditation: Gratitude 83%
Online Courses: English - Elementary — aiming at 100% (PASS)
Ppt & script 100%
Japanese Initiation: aiming at 100% (PASS)
Script & workbook 100%

How about you? What is your word for this week and why? Let me know in the comments. Take care!

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